Is masturbation killing your success with women?

There has been a lot of talk lately about the “dangers” of masturbation — Not that it endangers your life, but that it endangers your lifestyle by robbing you of your ambition.

The reasons for this that already have been mentioned by others are that it can reduce your levels of testosterone, that it can waste time, etc., but in this video I discuss another reason why masturbation can cause you to miss out on developing your game and your lifestyle to the level that you would masturbate to now.

You see, sexual tension is a form of potential energy.  That’s why you feel so nervous, energetic or tense when you are feeling sexual tension (or “being horny”) and it is also why you feel so relaxed, or even tired after you release that energy through masturbation or sex.

If you come home at night and “rub one out”  instead of taking steps to improve your game and lifestyle so that you can start having the kind of women in your life that you think about when you masturbate, you’ll never get to the point where you can live your fantasies.  You’ll come home, masturbate, feel “a little less bad” about being so lonely and undersexed and afterwards you don’t have the drive to do anything to change the situation.

You’ve simply wasted that drive, that potential energy to change your life and didn’t get anything out of it . . .

Now, how about this as an alternative — What do you think would happen if you were to decide RIGHT NOW to only have sex with women, to never waste the potential energy you have in the form of sexual tension?

What if you were to come home and, instead of wasting that drive, that potential energy, that sexual tension, you were to USE IT to motivate you to get to the gym, to calculate the macronutrients for a weight-loss or weight-gain diet, to learn a few openers so you won’t have an excuse to not open the next girl you see, to make plans for the weekend, to go out that night to practice your game or to get over your approach anxiety?

I guarantee you that, if you were to channel this energy into improving yourself, instead of wasting it, you won’t be able to recognize your (sex-)life in a few months or even weeks!

That’s it for today, until next time, go out there and be awesome!
Bob

 

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