Why is my girlfriend making me wait to have sex?

Of course a nice guy is going to wonder why he has to take a girl on several dates before he can even kiss her, while other men see women in bars and not only kiss them, but have sex within hours of meeting them.

That’s the reason why this is one of the most common questions that “nice guys” have when asking for advice about women.

I was recently told a perfect example of a girl who learned the hard way why IT IS NECESSARY TO MAKE NICE GUYS WAIT FOR SEX

I was talking to an older lady, a MILF whose son is in high school and she told me that her son had been dating a girl for several months and she finally agreed to have sex with him . . . after which he broke up with her . . . BECAUSE SHE’S A WHORE FOR HAVING SEX WITH HIM!!

WTF?!?!?!

Now, I’m going to ignore some of the questions that immediately popped into my head upon hearing this, like how can she be a whore if she didn’t sleep with anyone else, how can she be a whore if she didn’t sleep with him until after they had been dating and my personal favorite question: If she’s a whore for having slept with him, what does that make him??

Let’s ignore those questions for now and just concentrate on the effect that this experience had on this kid’s ex-girlfriend.

So, what did the poor girl learn from this?

Well, first of all, she learned that having sex with a “nice guy” causes loss — If she cares about a person and doesn’t make him wait long enough to have sex with her, he will break up with her because she’s not “girlfriend material” . . .

What she learned is that she will suffer emotional pain if she doesn’t make a nice guy wait long enough to have sex — He will hurt her feelings by insulting her as a slut or whore . . .

What she learned from this is that she will now have problems at school — The entire community has labeled her as a whore because she didn’t wait long enough to have sex with a nice guy.  As she gets older, she’ll still “have to” make nice guys wait for sex because not doing so may hurt her career . . .

What she learned is that she would still have her boyfriend and none of this would ever have happened if she had only made him wait longer to have sex . . .

So, if its true that the unwritten rules of society won’t allow a woman to have sex without her being labeled as a whore or slut, why is it that a “bad boy” can get women to drop the facade and just have fun?

Well, think of how it must have been to live in the East Block during the Cold War.  You never know if your neighbor is spying on you for the secret police, so you can’t talk openly about the government for fear of reprisal.

HOWEVER, at a secret meeting of the underground resistance, which operates outside of the accepted rules of society, you can relax and let loose about how much your country’s politics suck!

You see, while nice guys represent “the man”, the accepted rules of how one should behave in society, bad boys operate outside of those rules and provide a safe haven for women to be themselves.

It’s as though bad boys with their presence alone say “I don’t give a fuck about society’s rules, I don’t let anyone tell me how to behave and, as long as you’re around me, you don’t have to, either.”

Hank Moody from the TV series Californication is a perfect example of a member of the secret underground resistance who constantly gets laid quickly because his personality and behavior show that he won’t judge or label women for expressing their sexuality around him.

When he poured whisky from a flask into his paper coffee cup at a PTA meeting while wearing a name tag that said “Hello my name is Phyllis”, he showed that he doesn’t give a fuck about society’s rules, nor does he expect anyone else to.

When he told his daughter’s teacher that her mother wants her to be happy and he wants her to be a lesbian (“Can’t she be both? A happy lesbian?”) he showed her that he doesn’t give a fuck about society’s rules, nor does he expect anyone else to.  Funny that this school teacher felt comfortable enough around him to have sex with him just a few hours later . . .

When he was at a dinner party and said to his blind date that there are worse things than finding out that her ex-husband was gay, that he could have been a Scientologist and she said “I’m a Scientologist Hank” he didn’t let society’s rules of behavior pressure, stress or embarrass him, he just followed up with “a NAZI?”  Funny that the divorcee felt comfortable enough around him to have sex with him shortly after dessert was served, in the bed that his ex-girlfriend now shares with her fiancée . . .

The bottom line is this that you’re either a part of the problem or you’re a part of the solution.

If you follow society’s rules about what acceptable behavior is and what isn’t, then you’re a part of the reason why women don’t violate those rules, aka the problem.  But, if you don’t make a big deal about those rules, aka, don’t make a big deal about sex, then the women you’re around won’t make a big deal about it, either.

That’s it for today, until next time, go out there and be awesome!
Bob

 

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20 Comments

  • SAIF ALI

    Reply Reply July 15, 2015

    I WANT TO YOU MAKE ME GIRLFRIEND

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    Reply Reply March 1, 2016

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